In recent events, i have come to this on relationships.
I see that some can be fake and untrue. Others can be hurtful to one. Some can even be complete lies the other party is not telling. Why cant some admit to being in a committed relationship or not being in one. Why do we hide behind this fear the devil gives us and what is truly going on. In a relationship you could find you and your partner at the point of loving each other in so many ways. Some go into a relationship thinking everything is just peachy king but its not you have to work on it so it can be that way. Not just expect it to. It takes work for a relationship to work and to survive some bad situtations. Working together changes every bit of the relationship. letting the other know how they feel. It cant jus be 50- 50 anymore its got to be 100--100. We the fighters of the relationship gotta stop fight by our selves. the other has to fight also. One person fighting and thinking your gonna get some message say they need time. nO you have to be direct with each other. They've got to be able to explain what exactly they need time for. Not after a few days and they think its all better. No boyfriend or girlfriend should leave the other wondering if they have done something wrong. To me we each have a role and right of being a strong person to take on any relationship . We shouldnt lie. even though they say wat they dnt know wont hurt them. oh but it will. it can cause so much hurt for not telling them and letting them know what the true story is and not hear say. We have got to toughen up as humans and understand life isnt always easy. we have to learn from our lessons he gives us each day about relationship and about life period. Know that if your in a relationship you are strong but you've got to believe in yourself before the other believe's in you.
Stay Faithfull
Sunday, December 7, 2008
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That last line is so true... you also have to know who you are and be your own person before you can be anything to anyone else. A reason most relationships fail is because people dont know who they are and look to someone else to figure that out.
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